Would you be able to survive if your husband died?? And after he died the dog he had given you died while saving your life, because a stalker was trying to kill you. Could you move on and forget about them, or just mourn about it for the rest of your life?
I would probably mourn the rest of my life! That would be so difficult to move on after you found the man you wanted to spend the rest of your life with and then he would be taken from you! How could you move on after that? You have spent many years together and enjoyed your life together and now it is all torn apart, it makes me sad to even think of that kind of sitution or being in that situation. I'm sure after sometime I would move on and get on with my life, you would have to. It would be easier to move on and be strong if you had kids. They would be there to remind you of him and still make you smile, without being sad every time. If you were left with no kids and being all alone would make it so much more difficult to be happy. Its like you have nothing to live for so it would be very hard to move on at all. :(
ReplyDeleteI think you would have to move on with your life. There's always a time for mourning but sooner or later you have to be able to function in day to day life. You don't have to forget them or the love that you shared with them, but it should be fond memories. Their love for you shouldn't be something that hinders you from living a full life after they're gone.
ReplyDeleteI think that my husband would want me to move on with my life. As hard as it would be fore me, I would want me to move on with my life, instead of spending all of my days thinking of what could have been.
ReplyDeleteHowever, I would never lose the memory of him and he would always be a part of me and that would be what would keep me going. Now, I've never been in the situation to lose a husband, beings that I've never been married, but I would like to think that I could continue on with my life after time spent mourning his loss.
I would probably mourn for a couple of years. It would be extremly hard to get over and I dont know if I could ever love again. And if I did ever love someone again I dont know if I would be able to give my whole heart to that person. I would be scared to lose the man I had fallen in love with after what had hapened to my husband. And would my significant other think hat I loved my dead husband more or that I wish it was my dead husband instead of him? It would be an extreamly difficult situation.
ReplyDeleteI don't think I would mourn for my 3ntire life but it would probably take me a long time to move on. Life would be stressful enough as it is to have a stalker and to always worry about if your safe or if you go to the store will someone be watching you... Then to have your husband, your protector, the one you love, your best friend just die? It would be hard enough to deal with that pain without having someone watch your every move. And to top it off, the dog your husband gave you, the one thing that is there to comfort you dies saving your life!! Ugh. I would probably wish that it would of just let me die at first but in the long run I would be glad I had another chance at life and start over. The memories would never go away but you can't just live in the past. My husband would want me to move on and be happy but it would be a battle to get to that place of happiness again.
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