Change

How would you feel if you woke up from a dream and all of a sudden everything is different and people you don't even know are telling you how everything has changed?

Confused

Have you ever been so confused because of a situation in your life that you had absolutely no idea what to do? How did you overcome that confusion to be able to make good decisions?

Secrets.

In Just Like Ice Cream, Julie is pregnant and can't tell anyone, not even the people closest to her, her best friends, Jan and Stephanie.
Have you ever done something so bad that you couldn't bring yourself to tell the people clostest to you? What did you do in the end, did you tell them, or it is something you still hide?

Scary Women

Do you know any women that are very authoritative and people are of afraid of, even the men?

Husband

How would you feel if your husband left to go look for someone who could kill him? Even when you try to beg im not to, he doesn't listen.

Sarcasm

In my book mostly all the characters, especially Westley, are sarcastic. Do you think there is every a time NOT to be sarcastic?

Parents

What would you do if your parents made you leave town just because your boyfriend was in a different class than you?

Grief

What if someone very close to you had died and you could have stopped it? Even though it wasn't your fault directly would you still feel responsible?

Have you ever had a crush on someone and realized they arn't who you thought they were.

What would you do if your worst fear came true?

going away

In my book, Edna spends almost every waking minute with a family friend, Robert. She cant see herself without him. Now, Robert at spur of moment decides to move to Mexico and doesn't share this with her.
How would this make you feel? He never told you he was leaving and you find out from others? Would you be angry and stay angry with him untill he leaves or forgive him and be there for his departure?

goals

Do you remember setting a goal to achieve something that seemed so difficult. You try and try to achieve this goal and fail over and over, but you finally accomplish your goal, how do you feel? Have you ever gone through this? How did you feel when you succeeded?

That Certain Song

In my book, everytime Julie hears a specific long song come on the radio she begins to cry because it reminds her of Kyle.
Is there any song that reminds you of a person? Is this good or bad?

Info!

If you were to be tortured for information, what would most likely the information be?

first impressions.

most people make the instant impression that a person with a lot of tattoos is a bad influence, when in all reality, they could be a really nice person. have you ever made an impression about someone without really knowing what they are like?

Phobias

In my book, the main character was stuck in a car for many hours after a bridge had collapsed when she was young and now she is very claustrophobic. Has something in the past happened to you that has made you be afraid of something?

in my book john jumps in the ocean to get savannah's purse when he barely knew her just b/c he felt it was the right thing to do. have you ever done anything nice for someone who you do not know when it is not expected?

Letters

Has anybody ever written something to you that brought a tear to your eye? Such as a love note, Noah writes Allie a lot of letters that are very heartfelt and show how much he loves her. And when I read them, Im not gonna lie, but i cried.

Duty or Respect

If you were the sheriff of a small town where someone was killed would you disregard your duty to law to help the men searching for the murderer and kill him or would you stick with your job and trust the legal system?

What is something that your addicted to?

Reactions.

How would you react if you were raped by someone you knew and trusted? Would you call the police and turn him in or blame yourself and not tell anyone. Would you be able to move on with your life or would you be fearful to trust another man again?

First Date Clothes

Julie had a hard time deciding what to wear the first time she officially went to hang out with Kyle. What is your signature first date outfit? Or do you have one or no?

lie

what if someone you loved so much continued to lie to you about everything? what would you do?

what if everything you believed about your reigion was wrong?

Redemption

What would you do if you had been attacked and left to die? If you managed to survive after being beaten and robbed would you just want to forget about it? Or would you want revenge for the pain that those people had caused you?

Alzheimer's

Allie has Alzheimer's but Noah has stuck with her through the years and tries everyday to make her remember him. Some days it works but others it doesnt. How do you think Alzheimer's could affect your life? Do you think by some miracle you could help the love of your life remember the past even though the doctor's dont believe its true.

responsibility

If you are the oldest daughter in your family and your mother passed away when you and all your siblings were young, would you find it your responsibility to take over her chores and daily activities?

Who would you go to if your family turned on you?

Reggies dad in my book takes her brothers word over hers. The twist is her brother is being possested by a demon. Who would you go to if no one believed you?

Do you believe in the existance of demons?

Love

Princess Buttercup and Westley are madly in love, so in love that they would go to the ends of he earth for each other, and even to the brink of death. Does that kind o f love exist? How strong do you think love is?

Gentle Giant at heart

Fezzik is a very enormous man. But he hates to fight; he wouldn’t even hurt a fly. But his parents forced him into fighting, saying that they would leave him if he didn’t. They were trying to make a living out of his amazing strength. Though they got lots of money, everyone was “boo”ing him and it hurt him a lot. Do you think that parents should use their child’s gift for money? OR should they let him/her do what they want?

Thunder & Lighting

Do you like thunder storms? Why or why not?

first time.

have you ever tried something new for the first time (like surfing) and found out that you were naturally good at it? how did that make you feel?

Do you think its acceptable to have children if you dont think you could handle the stress. Yes, it comes with joy and fun times, but being a mother can be very stressful at times. If you dont know for sure that you want to have children shouldnt you wait untill you know for sure that you are ready for kids?

Pressure.

In Just Like Ice Cream, Julie meets Kyle during the summer. Not long after this chance meeting Kyle begins to suggest and eventually pressure her a physical relationship between the two of them. Now, not trying to get anyone to admit too much, has anyone ever pressured you into doing something you didn't want to? How did you handle the situation?

first sight.

do you believe in love at first sight or think that it is only in fairytales? if you do believe in love at first sight, have you experienced it yourself? if you havent, what makes you believe in love at first sight?

Clear Your Head

What do you do when you need to clear your head? When all you want to do is get way from the world and its problems?

Time stands still

Have you ever been so close to someone that when you spend time together it seems time just stands still? When Noah and Allie spend time together again they just forgot about everything else in the world.

A Double Standard.

Do you believes that girls should be put in the category of a typical double standard? For instance...if a girl loses her virginity then she's instantly classified as a slut but the more girls a boy sleeps with the 'cooler' he becomes.

Blame.

Why do most girls who are raped or sexually abused blame themselves for what happened to them? If you had no control over the situation, then why hold it against yourself?

if you were dating someone who your parents did not approve of, would you care? and if they tried to tell you that you were not allowed to see him anymore, would you listen?

money or love

If you are married to a man who is wealthy, cares for your every need, and gives you riches often is it worth being with him even if you do not love him? Would you stay with him or leave in search of love?

influence?

do you think the amount of siblings you have and wether they are boy or girl effect the person you become? or the life you lead?

would you?

when i was in kindergarden i had my first boyfriend, Andrew Mayor. do you remember your first boyfriend? if you had the chance to still be with him would you? why or why not?

clone

what if you could clone yourself and no one knew you had a clone what would you do? would you still live life or just let the other you do it all?

In my book there is a young married woman who has a relationship with another man. So far, it is nothing more than a friendship, but the two are very fond of each other and they are inseparable.
Should this upset her husband and make him mad? If he is not mad do you think she might take the relationship to the next level?

Legal or Revenge

What would you do if someone killed your childhood friend? Stay and let the legal system work or take out your own justice.

Chosen Marriage

What if you lived in a world where you were picked by someone to marry them. In many cases it would be a guy who you had never even seen before. In this world the people believe that whoever chooses you, you will eventually fall in love with and you must marry them. How would you feel about being told that you will love someone who you dont even know and you must marry them?

Real Dreams

Have you ever had a dream that seemed so real you actually thought that it was? What was your dream?

Hidden Personalities

There are people in life that even if you aren't best friends you know their general character. In The Dirty Secrets Club, an assistant District Attorney seems to have committed suicide, no one that knew her believes that she would ever kill herself despite all evidence otherwise. Do you think people are capable of committing random acts that are completely outside of their character?

In my book, Princess Buttercup is kidnapped, and at this point she finally seizes her oppurtunity of escape. She jumps overboard on the boat and tries swimming to shore. But her captors shout to her about the sharks, at first she blows it off, but then they pour blood into the water to attract all the sharks and they come. If you were in her situation, what would you do?

Secrets

In my book there's a secret society called The Dirty Secrets Club. You have to be an elite member of society and you have to have a hidden secret from your past, something you're ashamed of. Have you ever done something you regret so much it feels like a burden every day?

What would you say...

to your little brother if your mother left your family without saying goodbye and sent a couple of e-mails but then suddenly stoped communication all together.

Siblings

Do you have a little brother or sister that depends on you to take care of them? If you do does that responsibility annoy you? Im my book the main character has to take care of he younger brother and she doesn't think that its fair that she should have to take car of him.

First Love

A lot of people say you will never forget your first love. Noah is having trouble forgetting Allie he even left town but that didn't help. What would you do, to try to forget somebody? Would you move far away, get an extremely time consuming job, or just deal with the pain and hope something good happens?

From just friends to family

Do you have older friends so close to you that you eventually consider them family? I am reading the notebook, Noah is in his thirties and his best friend at the time is Gus, a 70 year old black man. Why do you think people befriend older people?

books and movies

Do you think that books are always better than the movie? I'm reading the princess bride. So far I like the book a lot, and movie is pretty good too, but I can't decide which one I like better.