yes because first of all every girl has her own definition of a "good man".some g irls want a complete prince charming who has absolutely no flaws and who rides a white horse and has a british accent.... come on.... he isnt out there.... boys are human they have just as much flaws as any average shmo! so yes a good mn IS hard to find!
I believe it is for some people but for some it isnt. If you are very picky in the type of guy, yes it will be hard. But if you just want a guy who is like you in some ways he may be closer than you think.
I am going to go with yes because you may think tht the guy is a good guy but in turn he could be awful. And were exactly do you find a good guy? I do not really think there is such a thing as a good guy. Every guy has at least one flaw its just the fact that can you love them enough to look past it. If you can not then he is not the guy for you.
I think it really just depends on if you have high standards or not. If you don't expect a whole lot from a guy then it won't be very difficult to find a "good" man. If you expect more and look for the faults in guys before you get to really know them then I think it would definitely be difficult to find someone that you think is worth it. Everyone has their own set of qualities that they find are "deal-breakers" whether that's if they smoke, or drink, or if they are already married. . . that's really up to the individual person, some people just happen to have a longer list than others.
I agree with eddi, it does depend whether you have high standards or not. If you have high standards, then in this day and age a "good" man will be hard to find. If you have low standards, then if he has good looks and likes you than that just might be enough for your qualities in a man. But maybe "finding" for that guy should be turned into "waiting" for him, you might just find the wrong man your looking for instead of waiting for him to come along.
A good man is definitely hard to find! What a great question to ask to a class full of teenage girls, Becca! haha. But, seriously, I think so. The world has changed so much when it comes to relationships, and the like. I know I'm only 18 and my 'relationship wisdom' isn't very good, but I've had really REALLY crappy boyfriends that didn't last long, and now I have a good one, that I care for very much. =) I agree with Cassandra, it all depends on what a girl is looking for, if you'll settle for the scum of the Earth, then I'm sure a girl wouldn't have to look far to find the perfect man. But if your list of qualities is a mile or two long, its gonna take a while to find your prince charming. hah.
yes because first of all every girl has her own definition of a "good man".some g irls want a complete prince charming who has absolutely no flaws and who rides a white horse and has a british accent.... come on.... he isnt out there.... boys are human they have just as much flaws as any average shmo! so yes a good mn IS hard to find!
ReplyDeleteI believe it is for some people but for some it isnt. If you are very picky in the type of guy, yes it will be hard. But if you just want a guy who is like you in some ways he may be closer than you think.
ReplyDeleteI am going to go with yes because you may think tht the guy is a good guy but in turn he could be awful. And were exactly do you find a good guy? I do not really think there is such a thing as a good guy. Every guy has at least one flaw its just the fact that can you love them enough to look past it. If you can not then he is not the guy for you.
ReplyDeleteI think it really just depends on if you have high standards or not. If you don't expect a whole lot from a guy then it won't be very difficult to find a "good" man. If you expect more and look for the faults in guys before you get to really know them then I think it would definitely be difficult to find someone that you think is worth it. Everyone has their own set of qualities that they find are "deal-breakers" whether that's if they smoke, or drink, or if they are already married. . . that's really up to the individual person, some people just happen to have a longer list than others.
ReplyDeleteI agree with eddi, it does depend whether you have high standards or not. If you have high standards, then in this day and age a "good" man will be hard to find. If you have low standards, then if he has good looks and likes you than that just might be enough for your qualities in a man. But maybe "finding" for that guy should be turned into "waiting" for him, you might just find the wrong man your looking for instead of waiting for him to come along.
ReplyDeleteA good man is definitely hard to find! What a great question to ask to a class full of teenage girls, Becca! haha.
ReplyDeleteBut, seriously, I think so. The world has changed so much when it comes to relationships, and the like. I know I'm only 18 and my 'relationship wisdom' isn't very good, but I've had really REALLY crappy boyfriends that didn't last long, and now I have a good one, that I care for very much. =)
I agree with Cassandra, it all depends on what a girl is looking for, if you'll settle for the scum of the Earth, then I'm sure a girl wouldn't have to look far to find the perfect man. But if your list of qualities is a mile or two long, its gonna take a while to find your prince charming. hah.