When my grandma died, she died because of a heart attack in her sleep, but she was by herself at the time. With her health at the time, someone should have been with her at all times but we could not afford to since we live 5 hours away. I know that there wasn't anything I could do but I have always thought that if someone would have been there then maybe she would still be alive. I've realized that it really wasn't anyones fault for her dying, everyone has a time and we can't always change that.
The night my dad died I was suppose to go spend time with him. I know that if I had been there he would not have gone off on his motorcyle or at least I would have been on the back of it. Theres not a day that goes by hat I do not feel responsible for his death in some way or another. I could have been there for him or just been a half decent daughter.
Well who wouldnt feel responsible? It would suck so bad and the death of that person is already going to be a lot of stress to handle and then to feel like you could have stopped it. Im sure this happens all the time and I personaly have never been in this situation, but if a friend of mine died and there was any way at all that i could have interviened I would feel like it was my fault, even though it wasnt. But since I havent it is easy for me to say that it is God's way and there is nothing we can do about it, but im sure that when I am actually in that situation my thoughts might change.
I would probably feel very badly and feel like I should've done something to stop it. I can't imagine loosing someone that one close to me. The worst situation though I think would be one like the girl in our school who's dad committed suicide. I would feel like there was something I did to make him do that or maybe that he didn't love me.
When my grandma died, she died because of a heart attack in her sleep, but she was by herself at the time. With her health at the time, someone should have been with her at all times but we could not afford to since we live 5 hours away. I know that there wasn't anything I could do but I have always thought that if someone would have been there then maybe she would still be alive. I've realized that it really wasn't anyones fault for her dying, everyone has a time and we can't always change that.
ReplyDeleteThe night my dad died I was suppose to go spend time with him. I know that if I had been there he would not have gone off on his motorcyle or at least I would have been on the back of it. Theres not a day that goes by hat I do not feel responsible for his death in some way or another. I could have been there for him or just been a half decent daughter.
ReplyDeleteWell who wouldnt feel responsible? It would suck so bad and the death of that person is already going to be a lot of stress to handle and then to feel like you could have stopped it. Im sure this happens all the time and I personaly have never been in this situation, but if a friend of mine died and there was any way at all that i could have interviened I would feel like it was my fault, even though it wasnt. But since I havent it is easy for me to say that it is God's way and there is nothing we can do about it, but im sure that when I am actually in that situation my thoughts might change.
ReplyDeleteI would probably feel very badly and feel like I should've done something to stop it. I can't imagine loosing someone that one close to me. The worst situation though I think would be one like the girl in our school who's dad committed suicide. I would feel like there was something I did to make him do that or maybe that he didn't love me.
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