Wednesday, January 13, 2010
First Love
A lot of people say you will never forget your first love. Noah is having trouble forgetting Allie he even left town but that didn't help. What would you do, to try to forget somebody? Would you move far away, get an extremely time consuming job, or just deal with the pain and hope something good happens?
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Actually one of the reasons I moved here was because me and my first love broke up a couple weeks after school got out ast year. I thought that it would be best to move so I would not have to see him with other girls and he would not have to see me with other guys. But I guess the forgetting each other part did not happen because he texts me all the time and never leaves me alone. Back then talking to him would have probably made me cry but now we lean on each other for support and help with our problems.
ReplyDeleteI would deal with the pain and wait for something good to happen. Because whatever happens happens, and you can't change that. Maybe somewhere down the road it would get better, or even turn a bad situation into a good one. You never know where life will lead you.
ReplyDeleteI don't think that moving or getting a really stressful job would make you forget more. In reality you would just wind up thinking of that person more I would think. Even if you moved it's not like they automatically leave your memory, and no matter how time consuming your job may be, if they were important enough to you that you had to find a job that consumes your life just to attempt to forget them then I think you're mind will find a way to remember them. I don't think you should try to forget that person. They were important to you and therefore they played a role in who you are now. Even if you were hurt right after the relationship ended I think it would be best if you tried to remember the good times you had and not be bitter or resentful at how it ended.
ReplyDeleteI think that I would probably just try to deal with it rather than trying to run away from the problem. I'm a believer in everyting happens for a reason. So if it didnt work out then that probably just means that it never would have and he wasnt the right person. I would wait for something better to happen because no matter what there is always going to be someone else that would be better for me.
ReplyDeleteI would probably just try to go on with my life and deal with it. It's not the end of the world and it happens to everyone and they are probably going through the same thing as you are. I don't think you should totally forget that person all together because if you were together that means that you probably had some good memories and you want to hang on to those.
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