Your new boyfriend takes you to his house for his sister's wedding and you can tell that his mom doesn't approve (because they have lots of money and you don't) but he can't see it, do you try to avoid her or try to get to know her? Would she make you feel inferior?
I would make an effort to get to know her. If things work out then avoiding her isnt going to help anything because you will have to be around her. I dont understand why rich people look down upon other who dont have as much. Maybe their just full of themselves. While I may not have as much money, I could make the decision to be the more mature one and be nice to her.
ReplyDeleteI would try to get to know her. Maybe she is just reading a book by its cover. And inside you are the perfect person for her son. I would feel inferior at first but then after a while i wouldnt.
ReplyDeleteI would at first try to talk to her and get to know her, but once I got the feeling that I wasnt wanted or liked there I would probably try to avoid her. It really sucks when you have that feeling that you are disliked or something and I would try to take myself away from that situation completly. That might make me feel inferior, but I would feel she thought I was, which definatly wouldnt help. I would tell my boyfriend the way I felt and how it hurt my feelings. The thing that would really get to me is that if you really want t have a relationship with someone you have to be able to get along with their family and it would be very difficult when I felt less of myself just being around them. I would really struggle with this situation.
ReplyDeleteI don't think that I would try to force her to like me. If I was an important person in her son's life then she would have to get used to me being around anyway. I think that after she got to know the kind of person that I am then maybe she would begin to like me despite my lack of money. If she didn't then it would bother me but I wouldn't change who I am just to impress someone. If she can't accept me for the person that I am then she doesn't deserve my respect anyway.
ReplyDeleteI think that I would try to advoid her. It would make things more ackward if I tryed to force her to like me. It would also make it ackward on the mother because if she did not like me I doubt she would want me to be all up in her grill trying to get her to like me. Yeah she would make me feel alittle inferior.
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