Do you think it is possible to change a 'bad boy' or do you think they will always be that way? Do you think anyone can be changed or like the saying once a cheater always a cheater?
I think that the only way that you can actually change a person is if they are willing, and wanting to change themselves. If you try to change someone and they aren't open to the idea then there is hardly any chance of being able to change that person. People always say that you should accept people for who they are and try not to change them, I think in a lot of cases this is the best course of action.
I agree with Eddi, the person has to be willing to make the change in themself in order to make a difference. However, if the person says they are willing to change and they don't and they keep up their old habits, I don't think they are going to change.
The only way they would change is if a) they changed themselves or/and b) God changed them. I think that You can't change them yourself, you could be an influence in their lives, but I don't think that you can change them unless they completely let you take over. I would never go into a relationship expecting the change the other person, thats a decition that you would have to make yourself.
I think that the only way that you can actually change a person is if they are willing, and wanting to change themselves. If you try to change someone and they aren't open to the idea then there is hardly any chance of being able to change that person. People always say that you should accept people for who they are and try not to change them, I think in a lot of cases this is the best course of action.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Eddi, the person has to be willing to make the change in themself in order to make a difference.
ReplyDeleteHowever, if the person says they are willing to change and they don't and they keep up their old habits, I don't think they are going to change.
The only way they would change is if a) they changed themselves or/and b) God changed them. I think that You can't change them yourself, you could be an influence in their lives, but I don't think that you can change them unless they completely let you take over. I would never go into a relationship expecting the change the other person, thats a decition that you would have to make yourself.
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